Good Bye Carbo

SSgt. Gero used to say "there is the right way, the wrong way, and Carbo's way." Alex definitely had a unique way of getting things done.

He was never loud or wanting to be the center of attention. It was not his words but his actions that defined Alex. His dedication was unparalleled and it radiated tremendously as a Recon Marine.

However, what set Alex apart was his unselfish devotion. As an NCO, he was not only there with me, but he was there for me. Through the good and the bad, the thick and the thin, he was there. Alex stood with me, shoulder to shoulder, as a Marine, an NCO, and most importantly, as a true friend.

Mr. and Mrs. Carbonaro, in your eyes Alex may have been an only child, but through your eyes you may not have seen how good of a brother he was of mine.

Gilda, I've never seen Alex smile the way he smiled when he was with you.

My father once told me "sometimes we say the least to those who mean the most, though our thoughts, which are often unexpressed, are understood."

I don't remember the last time that I told Alex that loved him, or even if I have ever told him at all. I had said so little to someone that had meant so much to me. But it's understood, and I know he understands. I love you Carbo, and I miss you.


Jeff Corwon
23 May 2006
Washington National Cathedral